The yearlong facebook hiatus is more than halfway over, and most days I don’t even think about it.
Yesterday, I did think about it. I’ve isolated myself to some degree as a result of not being on the social media monster, but upon recognizing this came a simultaneous realization that I’ve also lived under the radar of people’s scrutiny and judgments for quite some time. The trade-off is acceptable. If people are judging me, I have no way of knowing about it, and that works for me quite well, as it happens.
I’m just doing my thing, being the crazy gardening lady in the neighborhood, hating our still torn apart house from the flood at the beginning of May, and embarking upon various other little projects such as being a betta rescuer.
Yep. This is Ray Ray, my newly acquired pet betta. He was Mama’s for a year or two then got sick – so sick, in fact, that twice we thought him a goner. After the 2nd time of floating on his side at the top of the tank for a whole afternoon then showing signs of life, I took him home and started giving him curative baths and daily medicinal water changes and have basically been watching the miracle of him going from being at death’s door to thriving.
The top pick was him the Tuesday after bringing him home from the weekend, then 5 days later.
He is a fascinating and engaging little fellow!!
Mama had been doing quite well, going to exercise twice a week with a special kind of trainer. She then suffered a recent setback with a urinary tract infection, and we’re doing all we can to get her through this.
I did finally make a decision about the salon I’d been working out of and gave up my rental booth. Clients moving, the flood, and what not, it seems, kind of made the decision for me as it became necessary to start devoting all resources into getting the house put back together. I do still do the once a week haircutting thing at the nursing home.
I’ve also been able to get together with my son here and there. It’s wonderful. At the same time, it is a stark reminder of how we do not know each other as well as I would like to. That part is harder than I imagined it would be. I continually marvel at the person I see whenever we do get together, and that is a feeling like no other! He is an amazing person.
The house being torn apart has also taken a toll on our marriage. There really isn’t anywhere else to go with the stress of it all but at each other’s throats. We’ve been working on that lately, though, and it seems to be getting better…most days.
The band has been in the recording studio. It’s taken 3 whole months to complete this project. Hopefully, this next upcoming session will be the finale of the recording part of the process. Hopefully, the final mixing will wrap up from there fairly quickly.
We’ve been able to eat from our garden quite a bit lately, so that’s been pretty great.
That’s pretty much all the news there is on us at this time. If you are reading this, I sincerely hope you are having a wonderful, magical summer!